This morning I sat down to finally do a bit of work on the blog when I remembered that Charlotte Mason Soiree has a big giveaway announcement. And big it is!!! If you are a follower of Charlotte Mason’s methods and principles of education you are probably aware that finding her six volume set in book form was challenging. And pricey!
Thankfully Simple Charlotte Mason has just released a reprinting of Charlotte Mason’s Six Volume set with larger text and plenty of margin space for note taking. For the month of June, SCM is offering the six-volume set at a great sale price that comes with free shipping.
Simple Charlotte Mason and Charlotte Mason Soiree have joined together to offer an amazing giveaway: a complete six-volume set!!! There are several different ways to enter so go check it out!
Just keep trying…I’m not saying this to only you. It is on repeat in my mind almost constantly. Just keep trying…just keep trying…
For several years we have made the choice to have our children, of all ages, be with us during the worship service. I am often asked how I teach my children to behave so well during this time. When I am asked it always gives me a moment of pause and I hesitate to share my wisdom. I’m not sure it is what other parents want to hear.
Let us not get ahead of ourselves here. Join me for a moment. Sunday morning we arrive at church and find our seats. We take up a whole row with a few on the row in front of us. During the service I will glance down the row to gaze upon my well-behaved children. Oh, wait. The five year old is making a paper telescope out of a sermon notes sheet and using it to keep a close eye on the pastor. The seven year old has no paper and is trying to barter a piece from a sibling. The nine year old decided to bring her box of coloring pencils and share with the two year old. Yes. Coloring pencils that will likely at some point hit the floor. And naturally the child who was absolutely positive that they did not need to use the restroom had to go right now in the middle of the sermon. Just for kicks…let’s toss in a baby who has discovered his voice and the high pitch he can reach with it.
Perfectly well-behaved children? Nope. But they are children. And the paper telescope? The five year old knew to keep it low and not to wave in the air and disturb those around her. The bartering seven-year old? He settled in and listened to the sermon even without paper. The coloring pencils? My daughter realized that it wasn’t the best idea to have that many options out during the worship service. No one around us was disrupted. They were all quiet and relatively still. (And as an adult that can’t sit still, I don’t require perfection in my children here. They just have to learn how to focus that energy.)
This post is not about whether you should have your children in worship or not. That is a personal decision. You can clearly see what our decision has been. The point of this post is about how I get my children to behave during a worship service. Or at a restaurant. Or to use the bathroom. Or to learn to read.Or to conquer long division. Insert a wide range of possibilities here. Now for the key to success: Just Keep Trying.
Life changing? Nope. But really that is what we have done. We just keep trying. One of my children screamed the first year of life. Not a pained scream. Not a fearful scream. Just screamed because she liked screaming apparently. Guess what? At nine, when she goes outside to play guess what she does? Screams. She no longer screams in the middle of the worship service or when I’m reading aloud. She knows the appropriate time and place. Why? Because we kept trying.
Sometimes you don’t have to try, teach, guide, direct for long. Other times you wonder if your child will ever “get it”. They will. It may feel like an uphill battle. Just keep trying. It may seem like no progress is being made. Just keep trying. You may take your child out of the service every. single. Sunday. for a year but just keep trying. Show your child what is important for your family. Find ways to help them. Correct when needed. Praise when they make progress. Remind yourself of the end goal. I am blessed each Sunday to see my older children singing, participating, enjoying the worship service. I am so thankful that we just kept trying.
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In an effort to live in denial about how far behind I am on sharing what I have read this year, I decided to share a few new books that are on the way! I am always on the look out for new reads for the many book devourers that live in my house. Lately I have had a challenging time finding picture books for my younger crew. But! I happened to stumble across a few that I think my kiddos will enjoy.
We have all enjoyed the first two books in Jon Klassen’s Hat Trilogy Series: I Want My Hat Back and This is Not My Hat. The final book in this trilogy, We Found a Hat, will be available on October 11th.
My library has it on order and I have already put in a request for it. While the books are marketed for the 4-8 year old range, you will likely find yourself smiling and enjoying a chuckle or two. A little humor, a bit of mischief, and some great characters make these excellent for the book basket.
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie…is always a favorite picture book read aloud in our house. I am fairly confident that my kiddos and I could recite this book. I might have been a wee bit excited to see that Laura Numeroff has a new book to add to this series: If You Give a Mouse a Brownie.
This is to be released October 18th and yes, my library has it on order and I have it requested. I think we will definitely have to whip up a batch of brownies when we read this one!
And another favorite author is Sandra Boynton. Love having her board books in a basket for my youngest book lovers. I must confess that Barnyard Dance might be my favorite. There is a new board book to add to your collection!
Dinosaur Dance was released yesterday, August 30th. I might have to toss this one in my cart to purchase because my library doesn’t even have it on order!! It will make a great stocking stuffer for someone in my house.
Are there any new books you are looking forward to sharing with your children? Or even new books for yourself? Please let me know. I am always eager to add to our book stash!